Maybe someone once made you feel like you were too much.
Too sensitive.
Too intense.
Too anxious.
Too quiet.
Too complicated.
And after hearing it enough, you may have started making yourself smaller.
Explaining less.
Feeling less.
Asking for less.
But having needs doesn’t make you difficult.
Feeling deeply doesn’t make you a burden.
Needing reassurance doesn’t make you weak.
Taking time to open up doesn’t make you cold.
You are not meant to be easy for everyone to understand.
The right people won’t ask you to become less of yourself just to make loving you more convenient.
You don’t need to earn love by being quieter, simpler or easier.
You are not difficult to love.
You may just have been loved in ways that made you feel that way.
Love,
IT’S OKAY 🤎